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干货|你的人生属于你自己

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高考结束,随着高考分数陆陆续续公布,同学们接下来面临着填报志愿选择学校、选择专业的难题。小编当年的高考分数不高不低,但是也是经过一段时间深思熟虑才搞定,这中间听取过七大姑八大姨的意见,翻看过志愿填报指南,问过学长学姐的经验,就怕自己稍有不慎,选择了一个不适合自己的专业影响未来就业不说,还可能无法被高校录取。收集了这么多信息,每个人都给小编制定了一个未来规划,觉悟甚低的小编仍然一头雾水,过多杂乱的信息充斥了大脑的独立思考。最后小编冷静下来,认真梳理信息,查阅资料,终于报了一个自己满意的志愿。

 

所以,别人为你制定的未来规划,真的就是适合你吗?答案当然是否定的。别人对你的规划并不是你的人生。一个能使自己成为自己,比什么都重要。就像前些年兴起的“留学”似乎被拉下了神坛,以往代表了学术、深造,如今却有人调侃说“只是一个混文凭的烧钱游戏”。可是真的就是这样吗啊?

 

今天小编给大家分享一个最先在YouTube上火起来的鸡汤视频,标题为Before you feel pressure(在你感觉到压力前)。当你找不到人生方向的时候,深吸一口气,看看这篇文字,或许你能明白点什么。

 

下面是小编整理的视频内容:

Good morning, year elevens. Today’s assembly is about the start of a journey. The start of the rest of your lives. In 2 years’ time, all of you will be finishing your A levels. In 3 yeas’ time, you’ll be studying across the world, studying at the university of your choice. In 5 years’ time, you’ll have started your careers. Many of you will be in this room working for the top institutions across the globe. You will then get married, you then may buy a house. In 10 years’ time your life will be set for you. In 15 years, you’ll be 30 and from then on, your path, your life will be set.

早上好,11年级的同学们。今天的集会(assembly)是关于一段新的开始。它将开启你们今后的余生。再过两年,你们就会完成A levels(英国高中教育体系)的学业。再过三年,你们就会去到自己想去的国家,上自己想上的大学。再过五年,你们就会开启自己的职业生涯。你们在座的很多同学会进入世界顶尖公司工作。然后你们会结婚,买房。十年之后,你的人生就会安定下来。再过十五年,你就三十岁了,你的人生轨迹就会定型。

I’m sorry, Mr. Headmaster, let me tell you why that approach may fail you. 

抱歉,校长,我想告诉你为什么你的这些话是错的。

I know people who graduated at 21 and didn’t get a job until they were 27. I know people who graduated late at 25 and they found work immediately. I know people who never went to university, but found what they love at 18. I know people who found a job straight out of college making decent money, but hate what they do. I know people who took gap years and found their purpose. I know people who were so sure about what they were going to do at 16, they change their mind at 26. I know people who have children but are single, and I know people who are married but had to wait 8 to 10 years to have children. I know people in relationships who love someone else. I know people who love each other but aren’t together.

有的人21岁毕业,到27岁才找到工作。有的人25岁才毕业,但马上就找到了工作。有的人没上过大学,却在18岁就找到了热爱的事。有的人毕业就找到好工作,赚很多钱,却过得不开心。有的人选择间隔年,去寻找自我。有的人在16岁就清楚知道自己要什么,但在26岁时改变了想法。有的人有了孩子,却还是单身。有的人结了婚,却等了10年才生孩子。有的人身处一段感情,爱的却是别人。有的人明明彼此相爱,却没有在一起。

So my point is everything in life happens according to our time, our clock. 

我想说的是,人生中的每一件事都取决于我们自己的时间。

 

You may look at some of your friends and think that they’re ahead of you, maybe some of them you feel are behind, but everything happens at their own pace. They have their own time and clock and so do you. Be patient.

你身边有些朋友也许遥遥领先于你。有些朋友也许落后于你,但凡事都有它自己的节奏。他们有他们的节奏,你有你自己的。耐心一点。

 

At age 25, Mark Cuban was a bartender in Dallas. It took till 32 for J.K. Rowling to be published for Harry Potter after being rejected by 12 publishers. Ortega launched ZARA when he was 39. Jack Ma started Alibaba when 35. Morgan Freeman got his big break at 52. Steve Carell only got his break after40 yeas old. Virgin was started by Richard Branson at 34. Getting your degree after 25 is still an achievement.

库班25岁的时候还在酒吧做酒保。在被拒12次之后,JK罗琳到32岁才出版了哈利波特。Ortega到39岁才创办了ZARA。马爸爸35岁才建立了阿里巴巴。摩根佛里曼到52岁才迎来他演艺事业的大爆发。Steve Carell40岁才红。Richard Branson34岁才创办维珍航空。25岁后才拿到文凭,依然值得骄傲。(小编注:库班1983年创立计算机资讯公司MicroSolutions,90年代后成为了亿万富翁。摩根•弗里曼出演《肖申克的救赎》获得第三次奥斯卡金像奖提名。1962年出生的喜剧演员史蒂夫•卡瑞尔一直当“绿叶”,2015年才凭电影《狐狸猎手》提名奥斯卡最佳男主角)

 

Not being married at 30 but still happy is beautiful. Starting a family after 35 is still possible and buying a house after 40 is still great. Don’t let anyone rush you with their time lines. 

30岁没结婚,但过得快乐也是一种成功。35岁之后成家也完全可以,40岁买房也没什么丢脸的。不要让任何人扰乱你的时间表。

 

Because as Einstein said, “Not everything that counts can be counted and not everything that’s counted truly counts.”

因为爱因斯坦曾经说过:并不是每一件重要的事情都能被计算,也不是每一件能计算的事情都重要。

 

And this is the most important thing, I want you to be able to create meaningful, purposeful fulfilling lives for yourselves and learn how to use that to make an impact and a difference in the lives of others. That will be true success.  

这才是最重要的事,我希望你们可以创造属于自己的充满意义的人生,我希望你们可以创造属于自己的充满意义的人生。学会用这些去影响点亮他人的生活。这才是真正的成功。

 

再次观看这个视频,依旧心潮澎湃,这篇扎心而又暖心的演讲告诉我们:别让任何人打乱你人生的节奏。小哥哥的一番话不仅赢得满堂喝彩,更是为当下正处于迷茫、忐忑、惆怅情绪的年轻人指点迷津,我们现在要做的事不是“别人说我该...”,而是“我想要...”,哪怕是困惑,也是自己成长轨道上的一个必经阶段,不是吗?这个世界上有多少人,就会有多少种不同的人生。坦然一点,耐心一点。你的人生属于你自己,顺从内心,无问东西。

 

最后给大家推荐一首英文小诗:

New York is 3 hours ahead of California,

纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时

but it does not make California slow.

但加州时间并没有变慢

Someone graduated at the age of 22,

有人22岁就毕业了,

but waited 5 years before securing a good job!

但等了我年才找到稳定的工作!

Someone became a CEO at 25,

有人25岁就当上了CEO,

and died at 50.

却在50岁去世。

While another became a CEO at 50,

也有人直到50岁才当上CEO,

and lived to 90 years.

然后活到90岁。

Someone is still single,

有人单身,

while someone else got married.

同时也有人结婚。 

Obama retires at 55,

奥巴马55岁就退休, 

but Trump starts at 70.

川普70岁才开始当总统。 

Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.

世上每个人都按照自己的“时区”来工作,

People around you might seem to go ahead of you,

身边有些人看似走在你前面, 

some might seem to be behind you.

也有些人看似走在你后面。 

But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.

但其实每个人都在自己的“时区”内按照自己的节奏奔跑。

Don’t envy them or mock them.

不要嫉妒或嘲笑他们。

They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!

他们都在自己的“时区”了,你也是!

Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.

生命就是等待正确的行动时刻。

So, RELAX.

所以,放轻松。

You’re not LATE.

没有什么落后。

You’re not EARLY.

也没有什么领先。

You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE.

你非常准时,只是在你自己的“时区”里。

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